How to Play with Breasts

by Rayan Shah

Ah, the breast!  What a beautiful, erotic creation.  Breasts are perfectly designed to bring pleasure to both the giver and the receiver during breast play, and this how-to is all about maximizing that enjoyment.  The tips below will teach you how to delight your lover by becoming a more sensitive and exciting breast aficionado. A note: we’ve written this article with women’s breasts in mind, but keep in mind that many men experience nipple-play as an erotic activity. Some of the things that work on women can also work on men!

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Just as breasts vary in shape and size, so do they vary in the type of sex play that they enjoy. While some women like a lot of stimulation, others may get off with the lightest of touches. And remember, as with any tactile play: be symmetrical. Either play with both breasts at one time or give them both equal time. Otherwise one breast will feel neglected, which can be a distinct turn-off.

1. Begin by caressing her breasts slowly and gently. Try brushing the palms of your hands over the whole breast for a silky smooth sensation. This is a great way to get to know her breasts while also pleasuring her. Take this time to enjoy the sensations you’re feeling. Consider adding a massage oil to help keep your moves smooth, silky, and warm.
2. Get into the rhythm. Repeat your moves several times and be consistent. If you’re working in a clockwise motion, do that on both breasts. Or try this move: place your palm over the entire breast (with the nipple in the center of your palm). Fan out your fingers as if they’re the spokes of a wheel. Now bring them in toward the nipple and finish off with a slight pinch. Then repeat.
3. Monitor her body language. Stay present and pay attention to her sounds and movements; this can help you gauge her level of pleasure, and adjust your movements accordingly.
4. Don’t guess, ask! Don’t hesitate to ask her if what you’re doing feels good to her.  In your deepest whisper, a question such as “Do you like that softer or harder?” is sure to give you the information you need while keeping the action hot.

Good Enough to Eat

Breasts are so delicious you’ll just want to put them in your mouth. Once you’ve introduced her breasts to your touch, it’s time to add some warm, wet, oral loving. Start to explore the different tricks your mouth has to offer.

1. Lap it up. Begin with small licks on the outside of the areola to build her anticipation, then slowly move toward the nipple.
2. Add her nipple. Gradually transition from licks to gentle sucking—yum!
3. Suck, nibble, or bite. Experiment with a little light nibbling; if she’s really turned on, she might want some hard sucking and/or biting.
4. Add your breath. Blow on her nipples, alternating a little sucking or nibbling with your breath.
5. Equal time! While your mouth teases one breast make sure you’ve got a hand pleasuring the other. With your mouth on her breast you’re letting her know she’s good enough to eat.

How To Suck Penis

Practically every animal species utilizes the rear-entry “doggy-style” position, so it is a natural one for humans to enjoy, as well. While you won’t have face-to-face contact, there are many benefits. It’s great for guys because it gives them full control. This is one of the best positions for hitting her G-spot and allows him to fondle your breasts, stomach, clitoris, back, neck and other sensual spots. The main benefit for your man is that he’ll be able to get incredibly deep penetration (above-average guys need to be careful as deep thrusts might hit her cervix, which can be quite painful).

2. Find your man’s hidden zones

Yes, men love to be touched sensually too. I call these “hidden” zones because many people don’t realize, or forget, that these areas of the body LOVE attention. While many of these zones are obvious, like the lips, groin, and inner thighs, there are also areas that, when stroked, caressed and kissed, can drive your partner wild and even intensify their orgasm. Believe it or not, the ears, neck, arms, chest and scalp are all really sensitive areas that love to be stimulated. Spend some time during foreplay caressing and touching these areas, and watch how it pleases your partner.

3. Set a romantic mood

Think men aren’t romantic or wouldn’t appreciate it? Think again! Everyone loves a thoughtful and kind gesture. Of course you might think that using candles, music, incense and even rose petals to set the mood of your lovemaking is a little too “cliché.” But he’ll think differently! Your partner will LOVE YOU for this. Just imagine how happy you would feel if someone went to all the trouble to create a special lovemaking occasion that you can cherish for years to come. Could this be so “cliché” because people enjoy it so much? Point made.

4. Hand job

When beginning a genital massage, start with lighter, irregular strokes – like teasing. As you get further and further into it, stick with two or three main strokes that your partner really enjoys. Developing a good rhythm that your partner can get into is the key to bringing your partner to orgasm with a genital massage.

5. Pleasure your man with more oral sex

If I had to give you one piece of advice to make your lovemaking perfect, it would be: learn the art of fellatio. It’s true, all men love it. It feels great and actually takes a lot of trust and comfort to let somebody have their mouth down there. In short, it’s an important part of lovemaking and is often the main event. Problem is, women often start fellatio by sucking on the penis straightaway when, actually, they should start with some playful teasing and soft touches. This will lead to a much more powerful orgasm as it heightens his anticipation. Make sure you use different techniques and your tongue, as well.

So there you have it. Five great ways to make your man more satisfied in the bedroom. While they’re all great, I would recommend putting most of your energy and time into learning fellatio, simply because men crave it so much and the loving smile and kisses you’ll probably get in return are definitely worth it.

Wedding Disasters

Wedding Disasters: The most disastrous things that could ruin your wedding day!.
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A Wedding is a dream come true for all of us- it is something each one of us has been looking forward to all our lives and no wonder this is one event where we wish nothing goes wrong. Wedding means guests, lists, some confusion, wedding cake, wedding gifts, venue planning, decorations, wedding dresses, etc. With so many things to take care of, no wonder the bride, the groom and their families are one hassled lot.

It is necessary to take care of so many things if you wish to invite all your near and dear ones at your wedding. Things can go wrong from lists of guests to the venue chosen. Your wedding can become memorable for its blunders rather than the style and success. Here are some of the wedding mistakes that you need to be careful about so you do not ruin your wedding day.

1) Wedding planner: One of the most important persons whenever a wedding is in the offing is the wedding planner. Make sure your wedding planner is an experienced one; this could cause lesser confusion and better order at your wedding.
If you wish to carry out your wedding all by yourself, you should ensure you are taking care of all aspects of the wedding methodically. This begins from planning the venue and decorations to planning food, guest lists, gifts, etc.
2) Making guest lists: Guest lists are most important. At times with so many people to be invited, it is necessary that you bifurcate all those you know on certain criteria. This would be useful especially if you are interested in inviting only a handful of people and you have large numbers of people to choose from. Another confusion that could result among guest lists is when both the bride and the groom do not calculate how many people each would like to invite. You could end up inviting too many or too little, if your calculations go awry.
3) Inviting wrong guests: If you or your fiancé are not on talking terms with certain people, you need not invite them. Their presence would damage the wedding rather than enhance it; these are the wrong guests to invite.
4) Food preferences: if you love a certain type of food but no one else shares the passion for it. Planning this food for your wedding day could be one of the most disastrous wedding choices ever. It could happen that people either love your choice or the food goes to waste and people go back hungry without eating their fill. Public consensus is the best when it comes to making the choice of food.
5) Wedding Day: Wedding planning requires that you do not just ensure that the day you choose for the wedding is comfortable, preferably a holiday or a weekend. This is necessary if you want your guests to attend your wedding with peace of mind and enjoy themselves.
6) Gifts: No one in the civilized world would make any noise for not receiving a gift. However, it is important that you pay attention to pay attention to the fact that you are giving gifts (if your budget so provides) to everyone, especially to those near and dear ones.
7) Wedding Ring: Do not forget the wedding ring! Keep it with you or your best man/bridesmaid during the time of your wedding. This is necessary to avoid last minute confusion and waste of time and sending someone simply for fetching the wedding ring.
8) Wedding dress: Avoid another wedding disaster by taking trials of your wedding dress. This also includes whether or not you have decreased your weight. This will avoid last minute repairs and adjustments and you looking tacky in your wedding dress.

These are just some of the wedding day disasters that could happen. There are some disasters that only luck can save you from and over which you will have absolutely no control over. These are something like sudden rains, floods, earthquakes, riots, wars, cold wave, etc. Overall if you plan well, there are few reasons for a disastrous wedding.

It is however, important that you be sure that the person you chose to wed on your wedding day is the perfect one. You should take care that on your wedding day, you simply do not just fulfill your wishes, you also fulfill your beloved’s wishes and plan the wedding accordingly. Make sure you display your feelings not just to your beloved, also ensure you play the perfect host. As a host you should be able to take care of any disaster that could disturb your peaceful wedding.

Spicing up your Sexual Relationship

Sex Lessons

Has your sexual relationship with your partner been less than average lately, less exciting or completely died down?

You are not alone! It is quite common for the sexual relationship between couples, especially married ones, to lose routine and the excitement felt in the beginning. Though there are several reasons of why your sexual relationship has changed for the less active and exciting, it usually has nothing to do with your love for one another (depending on the situation).

The first thing you need to find out is what reasons there may be behind this changed. Is it you who does not want as much sex or your partner? After clearing that up, then find out why you or your partner feels this way. It is easier to find reasons concerning yourself than your partner, so if it is your partner you need to find answers on, then you will need to be more observant of their behaviors, reactions to certain things and so on. Communication will also be plenty of help, so do not be afraid to ask your partner if there is something bothering them, or talking to them about what is bothering you.

Do not feel bad or guilty if you or your partner feels less turned on by things that used to be the biggest turn-ons. It is a perfectly normal and understandable to get less interested in routines. We all need variety and new things in our lives, so just look at it as a call for something new. Try a new activity in the bedroom that both you and your partner feel comfortable with. You can buy some new lingerie; music, candles or anything you feel will set the mood. Try dating each other again. Most married couples forget that is important to continue dating and living the romance after the wedding. They enter a new stage of comfort feeling secure and safe, making them feel that they do not have to try to impress each other. Marriage is supposed to feel safe and secure and you do have to be up on your toes all the time, but you do have to continue making an effort if you want the romance to live forever.

Go to the places you used to go to when the two of you started dating, to rekindle that new romance feeling. Book a hotel room for a night so the two of you are away from, with pure privacy and a new surrounding, which could very well mean a new experience! Touch each other and pay attention to the other�s reaction to certain caresses. By paying attention and keeping an open mind, your sexual relationship can reach places you never though possibile.

Sometimes spicing up your sexual relationship can be more difficult than you imagined. You cannot think of every new approach to try and heat things up. Which is why professional advice is so handy. Explain your situation to your relationship expert and ask them for ideas and suggestions of how you and your spouse can make your sexual bond stronger. You will not only learn new things, but also how to avoid entering this block in the road again. A healthy sex life has a big influence on your relationship as husband and wife. It is not everything, but does play a huge role, so never neglect such a problem, hoping it will pick up the pace again. It takes two to participate in such a relationship, so always talk to your partner about what is on your mind to avoid misunderstandings. You can have the sexual relationship you and your partner have always dreamed of and more, with the effort, care, patience and expert advice that your marriage deserves.

Tips for wedding accessories

Tips for wedding accessories

Preparations for a wedding day is as hard as getting the right groom or bride to marry. All weddings might be the same as far as the general ceremonies are concerned. But the planning and focus on this day starts many months before. For some it is still worse as they have to plan it at least a year before as they start saving for their D/Day.

Wedding budget is what is taken into consideration when the wedding bells start ringing. Both the groom and the bride sit together and decide how much to spend on their weddings. It is a special moment and once in a lifetime celebration so many couples think of a very lavish and extravagant marriage ceremony. They usually plan beyond their financial capacity hoping to make up the deficits after marriage.

But there is actually no need to feel the pinch in your purse if you plan your wedding accessories properly. Getting the help of a wedding planner might be a great idea but still if only the couple had some time to spare they can easily cash in on the most affordable yet classic wedding collections they can possibly lay their hands on.

First sit together and start taking note of all the accessories you will both need for the wedding day. From the wedding dresses, to the hairpins and shoe laces everything should be noted down. Then carefully separate similar things together like dresses and its related accessories like veils, brooch, pins, bags etc together. Then put together your hair needs, shoes etc together.

Start shopping for the categories separately and do not go into a store looking for everything. First finish with the dresses, then the shoes and when you go for these things separately you might even knock on something important you had forgotten earlier. Search for budget stores or stores which might get you quality products for a fair price.

Branded dresses are costlier and especially designer clothes cost a fortune. Look out for cheaper versions of the designer clothes you like. They are available everywhere so it might be a better option. Take special care while selecting the right hand bag, shoes, veils and gloves. It is one day in your life time where you are expected to be your very best.

If you have chosen a themed wedding choose the accessories keeping in mind the general theme. Coordinate colors too to give a feel of uniformity with the whole wedding d�cor. Take special care with the guest seating and dinning arrangements too must be the priority as they will all add up to the celebration mood.

Food is the most important component of any wedding celebration. The table setting, floral arrangements and d�cor will only make the food served more enjoyable and tasty. Select a menu to suit everyone�s taste and always add details. Sit with the chief cook and take personal interest to taste personally all the dishes before selecting them.

The wedding accessories of everyone in the family must also be taken care and chosen in accordance to the theme of the marriage after discussing with them. Try to design for yourself a custom made wedding invitation as that will give a personal touch to the wedding invitees. The guests will be enthralled with your personal touch and taste. Giving away small gifts to the guests will only express your deep thankfulness for their presence in the most important moments of your lives.

Choose a gift which will be cherished by the guests forever and will always keep them reminded about you and your wedding memoirs. Planning for before and after the ceremony is also essential as many guests might choose to stay back or might come in advance. Their comfortable accommodation and other needs should be looked into.

The place of the wedding if it isn�t the church should be taken care of with much detail. Always be ready to face the worst climatic changes if you want an open air wedding. The bride and the groom�s beauty treatment should be taken care off months in advance. Visit to beauty parlors for the monthly facial, pedicure and manicure is a must.

Make a contract with the parlor and get a special wedding discount for all the overall beauty treatment. Plan your wedding, discount the payments and enjoy the celebrations.

Wedding Decorations

Tips for wedding decorations

Wedding is an important event in our lives. For most it�s a one time opportunity. So we wish to make it special and memorable. Simple living high thinking doesn�t fit in when it comes to an event like wedding. Everything has to be as beautiful and grand as possible. We would leave no stones unturned to make sure that every minute detail is taken care of to make it a memorable event.

Today almost all wedding ceremonies are either recorded on photographs or video films. This is to capture the memories of the occasion. So when we want to capture these moments we want it to look the best possible. And so decoration of the wedding venue becomes important. The decoration depends on the venue as well as the type of wedding. Let�s look at some broader issues to be taken care of in wedding decoration.

Traditional Wedding

� Space � The decoration may look good but if it hinders with the movement of the guests then it never serves the purpose. The decorations should be so made that there is enough space for the guests to move around freely and mingle with each other. The line of sight of the guests to the bride and groom should not be hindered. Everyone who has come for the wedding wants to see the wedding ceremony so it�s very important that they have a clear view of the proceedings.

� Preparations � make sure you get the estimates done for the budget as well as time required to get the decorations ready in time. If not planned properly in advance the expense may creep up and also the time required will be more. Keep a good track of the proceedings.

� Consultation – Consult with your photographer and video person as to the look of the decoration. Something may look very good in real but on screen it may not live up to the expectation. The professionals have a good knowledge of what looks better on a video and in a photo. So its imperative that their suggestions are given importance.

� Lighting � A very important factor is the lighting both in terms of the beauty as well as necessity. Again the photography and video shooting need good lighting. So consult with the professionals for that.

Themed Wedding.

� Choosing the theme � it is important that every participant in the event is comfortable with getting involved in the theme. So choosing the theme is a very tricky issue. While doing it consideration should be given to the profile of the participants, the venue and the weather etc. The theme should blend with the weather and the surrounding.

� The theme should not overshadow the meaning of the wedding day � This is very important as what is more important is the wedding and not the theme. The theme should be just to add uniqueness to the event. So it should be taken care that the theme fits in with the customs and procedures of the wedding ceremony. Decoration should be made to enhance the wedding ceremony by blending the theme with the ceremony. One should not compromise with the spirit of the event just to make the decoration better.

� Take professional help � Arrange for a wedding coordinator. Give your personal time to make sure everyone has got the picture clear. It�s important that the vision you have in your mind is communicated properly to the organizing people. Professionals have a very good idea about these things and can be of great help when it comes to decision making and budget planning for the event.

� The Look � the color scheme, materials used and costumes should all be in sync with the theme and also should not take the centre stage. While the theme should be reflected well in the decoration it should only compliment the wedding. You want the theme to add a surprise element to the event and not a shock.

It doesn�t matter what kind of a wedding you are planning for, decoration does give color to the event. If proper planning and execution is achieved the event can be memorable for not only the bride and the groom but also for the guests and the organizers.

Top 10 Worst Wedding Gifts

Worst Wedding Gifts – The wedding top 10 disasters.

Weddings are the happiest day for the bride and the groom. Their union will be authenticated by their family, friends and God. However, your friend’s wedding day can turn out to be quite challenging for you. Firstly a wedding means you need to select the wedding gift that can make an impression and be of some use to your friend. Most importantly, this wedding gift should be special, but not too expensive on your pocket.

If you are closely related to the bride and the groom there is no doubt you will be thinking of all the above matters. But if you are not very closely related to the bride and the groom or are presently in a condition where you cannot afford something fancy for the newly weds, you can give whatever you want to, but consider the following points that may make your gift one of the worst gifts they received at their wedding.

1. I O U: This is probably one of the worst gifts ever, let alone one of the worst wedding gifts! If you are thinking of giving this as a gift, forget it. This would harm your impression on the newly wed couple. Instead, a bunch of flowers would do the trick- at least you would have given something to the couple.
2. Passed on gift: You have something in your home that you intend to give as a gift for the wedding. If you are considering this, you have to ensure that the gift you are about to give is useful to someone. If the gift seems, it is better that you avoid this gift, newly weds who receive it will not be too pleased with whatever you have given, especially if it adds to clutter inside their home.
3. Outdated gifts: There was a time, when something you are about to gift the newly weds was in vogue, but not anymore, it would be wise not to give this gift, this too would be in the worst gifts list of the newly weds. Anything gifted that is out of fashion does not amount to a good gift.
4. Gift with price tag: The newly weds deserve whatever you are about to give them, therefore, it would be highly inappropriate to give them a gift by leaving the price tag on in under some or the other pretense. This will also somehow undermine your impression upon them.
5. Damaged gifts: Giving damaged or broken and repaired gifts to the newly weds is a taboo, even if the gift was expensive and you have done your best in mending or repairing it.
6. Gifts you know are of no use to the couple: if you know the newly wed couple closely, you should know about their likes and dislikes. This can guide you at the time of buying a gift for the couple. You should try and select the one which they are most likely to use rather than the one they may not use at all. If you give a gift of something that the couple may not use at all, this can classify your gift as one of the worst gifts.
7. Gifts that are potentially hazardous: Try and select safe gifts. Sometimes, opening up gifts can take up a long time, gifts like a spray, etc, need to be kept in safe places away from fire and heat. You should make it as clear as possible what the gift exactly contains, you would not want to surprise the couple with a gift that could be dangerous.
8. Perishable gifts: Gifts should be the ones which can last a long time. Generally, newly weds are short of time because of their honeymoon commitments and trying to adjust to each other, therefore, they may take a long time in opening up the gifts. If you have at any point and time given perishable gifts, these are likely to get spoiled or rot if not opened. These are also likely to attract insects- this would give enough surprise to the newly weds, therefore, perishable gifts at weddings are one of the worst gifts.
9. Unpacked gifts: Some people of the uncanny style of giving a gift that has not been box packed. This makes it very difficult for the couple to carry it from the venue of their wedding to their home. A gift that is unpacked definitely makes it to the worst gift list, because it cannot be stacked up anywhere good.
10. A large box and small gift: Sometimes people do not want the public to see how small their gift is, so they end up packing it in a much larger pack and thus taking up lot of space. No wonder such a gift will make it to the worst wedding gift! It is misleading and not very tasteful.

What you select as gift for the couple is your wish. However, you need to put thought into the couple’s necessities, rather than your whims when you are planning a wedding gift.

Five Reasons to get married and Five Reasons not to get married

To Marry or not …..

Getting married is once in a lifetime decision for many people. When people wish to get married, invariably all of them expect a full life together. Very few would think of marriage as a short-term exercise. Hence, it is very much necessary that all aspects of a life together be fully analyzed before tying the knot. Usually men and women tend to have different perspectives about married life. It would be better to have open and honest discussion to sort out the possible future irritants or at least understand them so that some sort of compromise could be arrived at.

The reasons that a man looks at while desiring to marry her are innumerous. However, a few of them top the list in order of priority. For most men, the need of a woman in life is necessitated by the motherly love that he had received in his early life. He needs a woman who can show him the same love and who could fulfill his physical and emotional needs. That is why many men look for the same qualities in a woman that their mothers possess. The second reason is to have a lifetime companion, who can share his desires and needs. The third reason is love. When a man feels that he loves a particular woman, he wants to own her fully. This might appear to be a wrong reason but that is the way humans are made. Everybody likes to possess what he or she desires and human relationships are no different. In some cases, the man might marry a woman because she has become pregnant and is carrying his child. Certain men wish to marry a woman who is having the same career as his, so that they would be able to adapt to each other better. It is quite usual for a doctor to marry a doctor and a lawyer to marry a lawyer. They would be able to understand the work pattern and the workload of each other. However, few others are very particular that the woman is having a different profession, so that their interests do not clash. This choice depends on the outlook of the individual.

In short men marry women for the following main reasons.

• The wish to continue the motherly love received in childhood.
• Desire to have a lifetime companion.
• The love the man has for the woman.
• The woman having become pregnant by him.
• To have a woman who has a similar career for easier adaptability.

Women also marry men for nearly the same reasons. However, one important reason that women have in marriage is to escape from parents that they do not like or from a parent who is abusive. Sometimes, men also marry for this reason but the number is much lesser than women. So the reasons for a woman marrying a man can be enumerated as follows.

• Wish to escape from parents.
• Desire to have a lifetime companion.
• Love for the man.
• Having become pregnant by the man.
• To have a man having a similar career for easier adaptability.

The reasons for getting married are quite obvious. On the other hand, the reasons for not getting married are much more complicated. In fact, it would be difficult to mention reasons for not getting married. However, the reasons for a marriage becoming a failure could be discussed with more ease. There are several jokes about marriage but nearly all of them are at the expense of the woman. There should be some strong reasons for that. Probably, the main reasons are the innumerable needs that women have that drain the purse of a man and the continuous nagging that women indulge in after marriage. One joke says that a successful man is one who can make more money than his wife spends but a successful woman is one who finds such a man. Many women tend to nag the men too much after marriage. They try to compare their husbands with other men who are more successful in life, which is resented by the husbands. Wives also tend to give free advice to men as to what they should and should not do, which is also not liked by many men.

Infidelity is one more reason that could harm the institution of marriage. Both men and women, who are quite possessive, would be repelled when they come to know about extra-marital relationships, leading to separation. Physical incompatibility is the cause for break-up in several cases. Even loss of interest in sexual relationship after some time could lead to a break-up of the marriage. Finally, the conflict in tastes and interests that appeared insignificant before the marriage starts to take a larger picture in married life. Disagreements increase, resulting in final separation.

Even though it would look absurd if we list reasons for not getting married, we could list the reasons that break-up marriage.

• Over-spending by the wife and living beyond the man�s income
• Continuous nagging, comparing the man to others more successful, and giving unwarranted advice
• Infidelity
• Physical incompatibility or sharp decrease in sexual interest
• Conflict in tastes and interests leading to disagreements and fight

Ways to Propose

10 Ways to Propose.
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True love is so rare and worth cherishing. It is no wonder you want to stay all your life with the person you love with all your heart. Today, trust in marriage is fast depleting because both parties are more interested in themselves than in pleasing each other. If you happen to be of a different mindset and would not mind going that extra step to ask your beloved to be with you, you should propose her//him immediately when you believe you are ready.

A marriage proposal can become the most memorable event in your and the other person’s life. It is necessary that you are absolutely sure that the person you are proposing to says ‘yes’ when you propose or else it will lead to disappointment. At the same time ensure that you are not late in proposing.

A memorable proposal will always be the one which is interesting, creative and innovative. You should ensure that the person you are proposing to enjoys this event thoroughly and that you are paying complete attention to this person. There are so many ways you can propose to a person, make him/her feel wanted and welcomed into your life forever. Check out some of these very interesting and innovative ways for proposing:

1) Book: This is one of the most complimentary methods of proposing to someone. If your sweetheart is an avid reader or literary genius, you can check out this unique option. This book is especially fruitful if your relationship has been a long one. You can bring up unique and happy memories of your relationship. You can write about this person in detail and reasons why you value him/her so much. Write the book yourself or get it written from a professional writer. Publish a single copy and present it to your beloved with the proposal on the last page.
2) Garden: If you love gardening and your beloved loves flowers, this is an ideal and a very touching way to propose. However, this method requires you to plan out your garden meticulously. Keep a separate patch for this purpose, plant and grow flowers in letters that will spell ‘Marry Me’ with the name, wait until the flowers grow full bloom and bring your beloved to this garden blindfolded and surprise him or her.
3) Boat Ride: Nothing can be more romantic as going out in the sea or a lake with nothing but the nature around you and your beloved. If you and your sweetheart are water lovers and related sports activities, this is a great way to propose. Take your sweetheart for a boat ride and propose.
4) Music: Are you a good crooner? You can sing love songs with most ease? Assemble one or two people to play music instruments for you and start recording love songs, and when you want to propose you should sing a love song with a proposal song for your beloved, a sure way to win his/her heart and a partner for a long time.
5) Adventure Outing: If both of you love adventure, you could go out on an adventure holiday and you could propose to your sweetheart at a time when you are at the most perfect point or place during the outing. It could be atop a hill you have just climbed or in the darkest of woods or on a starlit night in middle of nowhere. You could increase your happiness ten fold through the adventure outing.
6) Greeting Cards: This is another great way of proposing and surprising your partner at the same time. This is useful if you live in or occasionally do go to stay with each other. Greeting cards are a great way to express, therefore do not choose just a single card – instead, you could choose a series of cards showing your affection. Place each card in every room your partner is most likely to visit in the morning. Let the words ‘Marry Me’ card be in a place your partner is fond of. This method is inexpensive, making just the right choice or cards would make it worthwhile.
7) Emails: Add mystery and adventure to your proposal. Send emails anonymously; make emails – soft and comfortable that speaks only of your feelings and nothing else. Let your partner wait of another email each day, ensure you send your name with the propose email. This is the method so many people use for proposing the next person.
8) Create a Video: An artist or a good performer would love this surprise. Create a video of yourself painting or acting or dancing for a love song, towards the end you can propose to your beloved in the video. It is absolutely necessary to watch the video with your sweetheart if you want an instant answer.
9) Cook Up A Proposal: Learn a special dish your sweetheart loves, invite the person over for a romantic dinner, make sure everything is perfect. Create an unbeatable romantic mood, a perfect dinner date. And serve what your sweetheart loves, make sure that is perfect too and propose.
10) Agreement: Write promises that you will make at the time of marriage to your beloved, sign it yourself, and ask your beloved to sign the agreement if your sweetheart agrees to the proposal, a fun and surprising way for proposing.

So check and try the method you will use for proposing to your sweetheart. The above unique methods will surely win your beloved’s heart!

What is Love.?

What is love? It is one of the most difficult questions for the mankind. Centuries have passed by, relationships have bloomed and so has love. But no one can give the proper definition of love. To some Love is friendship set on fire for others Maybe love is like luck. You have to go all the way to find it. No matter how you define it or feel it, love is the eternal truth in the history of mankind. Love is patient, love is kind. It has no envy, nor it boasts itself and it is never proud. It rejoices over the evil and is the truth seeker. Love protects; preserves and hopes for the positive aspect of life. Always stand steadfast in love, not fall into it. It is like the dream of your matter of affection coming true.   Love can occur between two or more individuals. It bonds them and connects them in a unified link of trust, intimacy and interdependence. It enhances the relationship and comforts the soul. Love should be experienced and not just felt. The depth of love can not be measured. Look at the relationship between a mother and a child. The mother loves the child unconditionally and it can not be measured at all.   A different dimension can be attained between any relationships with the magic of love. Love can be created. You just need to focus on the goodness of the other person. If this can be done easily, then you can also love easily. And remember we all have some positive aspect in us, no matter how bad our deeds maybe. And as God said �Love all� Depending on context, love can be of different varieties. Romantic love is a deep, intense and unending. It shared on a very intimate and interpersonal and sexual relationship.  The term Platonic love, familial love and religious love are also matter of great affection. It is more of desire, preference and feelings. The meaning of love will change with each different relationship and depends more on its concept of depth, versatility, and complexity. But at times the very existence of love is questioned. Some say it is false and meaningless. It says that it never exist, because there has been many instances of hatred and brutality in relationships. The history of our world has witnessed many such events. There has been hatred between brothers, parents and children, sibling rivalry and spouses have failed each other. Friends have betrayed each other; the son has killed his parents for the throne, the count is endless. Even the modern generation is also facing with such dilemmas everyday. But �love� is not responsible for that. It is us, the people, who have forgotten the meaning of love and have undertaken such gruesome apathy. In the past the study of philosophy and religion has done many speculations on the phenomenon of love. But love has always ruled, in music, poetry, paintings, sculptor and literature. Psychology has also done lot of dissection to the essence of love, just like what biology, anthropology and neuroscience has also done to it. Psychology portrays love as a cognitive phenomenon with a social cause. It is said to have three components in the book of psychology: Intimacy, Commitment, and Passion. Also, in an ancient proverb love is defined as a high form of tolerance. And this view has been accepted and advocated by both philosophers and scholars.   Love also includes compatibility. But it is more of journey to the unknown when the concept of compatibility comes into picture. Maybe the person whom we see in front of us, may be least compatible than the person who is miles away. We might talk to each other and portray that we love each other, but practically we do not end up into any relationship. Also in compatibility, the key is to think about the long term successful relationship, not a short journey. We need to understand each other and must always remember that no body is perfect. Be together, share your joy and sorrow, understand each other, provide space to each other, but always be there for each others need. And surely love will blossom to strengthen your relationship with your matter of affection.

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Love all, trust a few, do wrong to none.
William Shakespeare.